Infidelity is a symptom of an unhealthy marriage and indicating the non-fulfillment of satisfaction in the relationship. That’s why keeping your sex life to stay active and make intimacy as an important priority for the sake of avoiding infidelity.
Why? Because at some couples who already have children, or sexual intimacy is no longer listed in the ‘main menu’ in the life of the household. Busyness of raising children and jobs and potentially create a tenuous relationship tasteless.
“I am not surprised at the report in 2006 which showed that 15-20 percent of married couples no longer have sex. In therapy I do, the real problem lies not in sexual activity but the intimacy of the couple both emotionally and physically which is reduced or even no longer , “said Dr. Michelle Golland, a sex therapist, as quoted from Your Tango.
Then how can I make you avoid infidelity marriage. Golland reveal the tricks to maintain physical and emotional intimacy that you and your husband can do to minimize the potential for cheating.
1. Create a child to sleep faster
Many couples allow their children to bed too late for various reasons. Try sharing the task with a partner, such as your kitchen tidy, while the children sleep partner. Keep kids were asleep around 20.00, so you and your partner still have time together to make out.
2. Use a baby sitter
Time to be alone with your spouse is not a luxury, but a necessity. By spending time together, you and your partner will feel relaxed so as to reduce stress. The relationship will be maintained even intimacy.
If you do not have a nanny, occasionally Titipkan child on a parent or relative for a date night. But if you have a nanny, entrusted to her first child. Spend time alone. After dating, the feeling will be better secured and the home atmosphere became more fun than ever.
3. Morning sex
Before the morning rush began, would be very nice if you and your partner start by making love. The effect was like an injection of morale and create mood and your spouse become better in dealing with busyness. Be creative stealing time in order to maintain intimacy.
4. Stay in touch
Notify each other of each word, either by phone, email, sms or chatting is very important. This is to keep the ‘dependency’ you and your partner. Imagine if the husband is being stressed at work, then you send an sms love with him, it would be like medicine for her encouragement.